The PIMS Influence Ep. 67 – Learning Something New at 50 with Michelle Freedberg

About the episode 

Our generation of parents is way too involved. Michelle Freedberg sees it from the therapist’s chair, and she says it’s time to pull back.

Twenty-plus years after her first job at PIMS, Michelle Freedberg joins Mike for a candid conversation about parenting kids who need you less, building a solo therapy practice, starting the Before Boca podcast at 50, and why she’s over the excess of beauty products.

This one runs more casual than most episodes of The PIMS Influence, two old colleagues catching up, and it keeps landing on real topics: gender disappointment in family planning, containing your own anxiety so your kids don’t carry it, and the Before Boca episode where Michelle and her co-host Lisa asked a 21-year-old how he actually wants to be parented.

When the videographer who was supposed to run their podcast tech took a job in California a week after they committed, Michelle and Lisa learned every piece of it themselves. Her verdict: if the show never makes a dime, learning something completely new at 50 was the reward.

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

Michelle Freedberg on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-freedberg-4626704/

Women’s Wellness Center of Bergen County: https://womenswellnessbergenco.org

Before Boca on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/before-boca-a-podcast-for-women-rediscovering/id1866963369

Before Boca on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/before_boca/

Chapters

0:00 – Intro

1:42 – From PIMS to Private Practice

9:39 – Parenting in the Age of ChatGPT

17:28 – Gender Disappointment in Pregnancy

19:42 – Big Kids, Big Problems

24:11 – The Story Behind Before Boca

26:02 – Asking a 21-Year-Old How to Parent

32:24 – Over the Beauty Product Overload

38:00 – Rapid-Fire Parenting Questions

ABOUT MICHELLE FREEDBERG

Michelle Freedberg is a licensed clinical social worker and mental health therapist. She has run the Women’s Wellness Center of Bergen County, her solo private practice, since 2010, specializing in maternal mental health and women’s mental health. She co-hosts Before Boca, a podcast for women rediscovering themselves in midlife.

https://www.linkedin.com/in/michelle-freedberg-4626704/ | https://womenswellnessbergenco.org